Udaipur, Thursday 28 February 2013
Jaisalmer was what I'd hoped to find in Bikaner - a small town that really did have a desert outpost feel, and was visibly surrounded by desert.
Arriving in the late evening, I reached my hotel by tuk-tuk and checked in. It was the Dylan Cafe and Guest House - named for the two owners' love of Bob Dylan. I'd chosen it purely because it got good reviews on TripAdvisor, where guests talked lovingly of warm evenings whiled away on the rooftop terrace with views of the huge sandcastle of a fort. And it was cheap.
I got a warm welcome and, after dumping my bags in the mediocre room, was invited to the roof for a 'welcome drink' of chai. I'd had too many cups of chai that day already, but another was very welcome indeed, as it said on the tin. On the roof, enclosed by billowing, tie-dyed sheets, were mattresses laid out on the floor Moroccan style, with lots of cushions and a few low coffee tables. An Australian woman and one of the owners were online on a laptop, chatting about travel options, and we all said hello. After the chai, the owners promptly offered me a rum and soda, but the chai was my limit. I could see what people meant about enjoying the relaxed atmosphere in the place.
Tired from the journey, I left them there on the roof and headed for bed around 11.30am, but a combination of too much tea, the usual howling dogs, and noisey people somewhere outside kept me awake. By 2am, I'd had enough and went to see where all the noise was coming from. Was it people on the roof? I went up, but it was empty. Out in the street, a man was busy throwing stones at the neighbourhood dogs to shut them up and chase them off. I went back into the hotel, and realised the noise was coming from the room beside mine. I rapped the door and pointed out that they were keeping me awake. Silence at last. I finally fell asleep - but not before moving my alarm on a bit... this was a morning for a lie-in.
Next morning, up on the roof for breakfast, it came to light it was the owners who'd been making all the racket the night before. They apologised... a friend had come and they'd lost track of the time. With my Western logic, to me the main purpose of having a hotel is to have somewhere to sleep, and it should therefore be the hotel owner's main occupation to do what he/she can to ensure you can do so. But here was the owner keeping the whole place awake. But they were so friendly and helpful that I put my Indian head on and enjoyed my breakfast with my first views of Jaisalmer.
At last... here was a town that seemed 'of' its landscape, with sand-coloured houses dissolving into the desert landscape beyond. On all sides was desert. This was what I'd hoped for.
I'd finished the book I'd been reading the previous day on the bus, and so my first job was to buy another one. Wandering into the bazaar, I found a bookshop and got 'The Inheritance of Loss', by Kiran Desai, which was a Booker Prize winner. I really enjoy reading books that relate to where you are. So, happy that I'd be able to delve into it over a cup of chai somewhere, I went to visit the fort.
The fort at Jaisalmer rises up above the town. It's a walled city, and is a living fort in the sense that people still live in the maze of narrow alleys within its walls, alongside shops, restaurants, hotels and temples. It wasn't easy to find the way in. You go through several vast defensive gates and end up in a courtyard full of tuk-tuks and motorbikes, from which all the laneways spider off. I wandered round the lanes and then visited the palace building inside - another audioguide affair - before descending down through the series of gates and back into the bazaar.
I'll call home, I thought, and found a place that does international calls. No phone boxes or calling cards here. But after 15 or 20 minutes of talking to my partner, the owner of the place started gesturing to me, tapping on his watch. We finished off the conversation and I hung up.
The man explained that it wasn't good to be making long international calls at night, so close to the border with Pakistan. He seemed to think he'd get in bother, with the authorities asking questions.
The next day, I figured I'd explore the lake - Jaisalmer's other main attraction. It was lovely, with temples all round and tourists - Indian and foreign - milling around at town side of the lake, where the entrance was. I sat about for a while, watching the world go, before deciding to do a lap of the lake. It looked blissfully quiet over there - just a few people bathing, and a goat herd or two... a few lovely trees casting shade that would be lovely to sit under and read for a while. Working my way round the shore, I perched under a tree, roughly opposite the main entrance where I'd been eyeing up the spot, and sat down with my book. I saw a bloke approaching but he gave me a wide berth, prayed at a temple a way's along the shore from me, and went back the same way. I'd been ready to pack up and move off, as always.
Then three young men began making their way towards me. I put my book away and got up, just to be on the safe side. I was about half-way round the lake, and so I could either continue my circuit, which would mean walking towards the me, or go back the way I'd come. Trying not to be too paranoid, I continued on my way. Two of the men helloed at me and wandered on their way after I muttered a quick hello and walked on. But the third had other ideas.
'500 rupees,' he said.
'Are you crazy?' I asked him, looking at him with disdain.
'Yes,' he replied. '100 rupees'.
I quickened my pace and ignored him. Out of luck as far as getting any money was concerned, he decided to see if anything else was on offer.
'Sex, sex,' he kept saying, his terminology then becoming somewhat more obscene.
Finally, he walked in front of me and I could tell from his gestures that he was exposing himself. I decided not to look down, and spared myself that wonderful image burnt onto my memory. I thought for a minute that this could easily turn out very bad, but I was angry and utterly disgusted that someone would think they could treat a woman like that, here in broad daylight. It spoke volumes of his view of Western women - not that Indian women don't experience the same thing in this unnaturally repressed society. I steeled myself in anger to pummel the guy if he made any moves towards me and continued my march towards a goat herd with two young children not far away. To my relief, the pathetic criminal slinked off back to his mates.
Later, in a cafe where I stopped for a hot lemon, ginger and honey tea, I got into conversation with the owner. We chatted about Indian society, and he was telling me how hard it is to be honest and straight in your dealings with tourists and neighbours. It was difficult, he said, even for him to know who to trust, given the corruption and dog-eat-dog society, where everyone's trying to get by and get a bit ahead. He said he sometimes questioned himself for doing the right thing, because he could see others getting on and making more money. But it clearly wasn't in his nature to do that. I found myself telling him what had happened at the lake and we talked about why these kinds of incidents happen here (not that they don't happen anywhere else...).
Back on the roof at my hotel that evening, I was telling the Australian woman about it. Two friends of hers had been on a train in recent days when a man began openly masturbating while leering at them. Disgusted, they filmed him in an attempt to shame him into stopping.
I guess this is the kind of thing that happens when you repress normal relationships between men and women, and when the media and films give a wanton view of Western women. It's noticeable that in all Bollywood music videos, the scantily-clad dancers in the background are always white women, while the Indian women look resplendent in their saris (albeit skimpy versions!). Couple all this with a society that discriminates against women anyway, and it's a tinder box.
And so, on to Jodhpur...
Jaisalmer was what I'd hoped to find in Bikaner - a small town that really did have a desert outpost feel, and was visibly surrounded by desert.
Arriving in the late evening, I reached my hotel by tuk-tuk and checked in. It was the Dylan Cafe and Guest House - named for the two owners' love of Bob Dylan. I'd chosen it purely because it got good reviews on TripAdvisor, where guests talked lovingly of warm evenings whiled away on the rooftop terrace with views of the huge sandcastle of a fort. And it was cheap.
I got a warm welcome and, after dumping my bags in the mediocre room, was invited to the roof for a 'welcome drink' of chai. I'd had too many cups of chai that day already, but another was very welcome indeed, as it said on the tin. On the roof, enclosed by billowing, tie-dyed sheets, were mattresses laid out on the floor Moroccan style, with lots of cushions and a few low coffee tables. An Australian woman and one of the owners were online on a laptop, chatting about travel options, and we all said hello. After the chai, the owners promptly offered me a rum and soda, but the chai was my limit. I could see what people meant about enjoying the relaxed atmosphere in the place.
Tired from the journey, I left them there on the roof and headed for bed around 11.30am, but a combination of too much tea, the usual howling dogs, and noisey people somewhere outside kept me awake. By 2am, I'd had enough and went to see where all the noise was coming from. Was it people on the roof? I went up, but it was empty. Out in the street, a man was busy throwing stones at the neighbourhood dogs to shut them up and chase them off. I went back into the hotel, and realised the noise was coming from the room beside mine. I rapped the door and pointed out that they were keeping me awake. Silence at last. I finally fell asleep - but not before moving my alarm on a bit... this was a morning for a lie-in.
Next morning, up on the roof for breakfast, it came to light it was the owners who'd been making all the racket the night before. They apologised... a friend had come and they'd lost track of the time. With my Western logic, to me the main purpose of having a hotel is to have somewhere to sleep, and it should therefore be the hotel owner's main occupation to do what he/she can to ensure you can do so. But here was the owner keeping the whole place awake. But they were so friendly and helpful that I put my Indian head on and enjoyed my breakfast with my first views of Jaisalmer.
At last... here was a town that seemed 'of' its landscape, with sand-coloured houses dissolving into the desert landscape beyond. On all sides was desert. This was what I'd hoped for.
I'd finished the book I'd been reading the previous day on the bus, and so my first job was to buy another one. Wandering into the bazaar, I found a bookshop and got 'The Inheritance of Loss', by Kiran Desai, which was a Booker Prize winner. I really enjoy reading books that relate to where you are. So, happy that I'd be able to delve into it over a cup of chai somewhere, I went to visit the fort.
The fort at Jaisalmer rises up above the town. It's a walled city, and is a living fort in the sense that people still live in the maze of narrow alleys within its walls, alongside shops, restaurants, hotels and temples. It wasn't easy to find the way in. You go through several vast defensive gates and end up in a courtyard full of tuk-tuks and motorbikes, from which all the laneways spider off. I wandered round the lanes and then visited the palace building inside - another audioguide affair - before descending down through the series of gates and back into the bazaar.
I'll call home, I thought, and found a place that does international calls. No phone boxes or calling cards here. But after 15 or 20 minutes of talking to my partner, the owner of the place started gesturing to me, tapping on his watch. We finished off the conversation and I hung up.
The man explained that it wasn't good to be making long international calls at night, so close to the border with Pakistan. He seemed to think he'd get in bother, with the authorities asking questions.
The next day, I figured I'd explore the lake - Jaisalmer's other main attraction. It was lovely, with temples all round and tourists - Indian and foreign - milling around at town side of the lake, where the entrance was. I sat about for a while, watching the world go, before deciding to do a lap of the lake. It looked blissfully quiet over there - just a few people bathing, and a goat herd or two... a few lovely trees casting shade that would be lovely to sit under and read for a while. Working my way round the shore, I perched under a tree, roughly opposite the main entrance where I'd been eyeing up the spot, and sat down with my book. I saw a bloke approaching but he gave me a wide berth, prayed at a temple a way's along the shore from me, and went back the same way. I'd been ready to pack up and move off, as always.
Then three young men began making their way towards me. I put my book away and got up, just to be on the safe side. I was about half-way round the lake, and so I could either continue my circuit, which would mean walking towards the me, or go back the way I'd come. Trying not to be too paranoid, I continued on my way. Two of the men helloed at me and wandered on their way after I muttered a quick hello and walked on. But the third had other ideas.
'500 rupees,' he said.
'Are you crazy?' I asked him, looking at him with disdain.
'Yes,' he replied. '100 rupees'.
I quickened my pace and ignored him. Out of luck as far as getting any money was concerned, he decided to see if anything else was on offer.
'Sex, sex,' he kept saying, his terminology then becoming somewhat more obscene.
Finally, he walked in front of me and I could tell from his gestures that he was exposing himself. I decided not to look down, and spared myself that wonderful image burnt onto my memory. I thought for a minute that this could easily turn out very bad, but I was angry and utterly disgusted that someone would think they could treat a woman like that, here in broad daylight. It spoke volumes of his view of Western women - not that Indian women don't experience the same thing in this unnaturally repressed society. I steeled myself in anger to pummel the guy if he made any moves towards me and continued my march towards a goat herd with two young children not far away. To my relief, the pathetic criminal slinked off back to his mates.
Later, in a cafe where I stopped for a hot lemon, ginger and honey tea, I got into conversation with the owner. We chatted about Indian society, and he was telling me how hard it is to be honest and straight in your dealings with tourists and neighbours. It was difficult, he said, even for him to know who to trust, given the corruption and dog-eat-dog society, where everyone's trying to get by and get a bit ahead. He said he sometimes questioned himself for doing the right thing, because he could see others getting on and making more money. But it clearly wasn't in his nature to do that. I found myself telling him what had happened at the lake and we talked about why these kinds of incidents happen here (not that they don't happen anywhere else...).
Back on the roof at my hotel that evening, I was telling the Australian woman about it. Two friends of hers had been on a train in recent days when a man began openly masturbating while leering at them. Disgusted, they filmed him in an attempt to shame him into stopping.
I guess this is the kind of thing that happens when you repress normal relationships between men and women, and when the media and films give a wanton view of Western women. It's noticeable that in all Bollywood music videos, the scantily-clad dancers in the background are always white women, while the Indian women look resplendent in their saris (albeit skimpy versions!). Couple all this with a society that discriminates against women anyway, and it's a tinder box.
And so, on to Jodhpur...